Do You Know the Midlife Women’s #1 Toxin?
Quite frankly, I was shocked. Yesterday on my call with Patti Milligan, MS. RD. nutrition and supplement expert I mentioned that exercise and healthy eating are not enough, most of us should include some supplements depending on our bodies needs, the environment around us, our levels of stress. Patti jumped in there and said, “I don’t want to be an alarmist but that’s the worst toxin we have.” What is? “Stress” she answered emphatically.
The worst one? Like so many women I tend to down play stress as it shows up day to day. Granted I also don’t have anything chronically eating at me–or at least I’m not awake to it. Toxic stress includes, never getting a good night’s sleep, a long frustrating commute, a disruptive colleague or unreasonable boss, an abusive relationship with anyone you interact with, chronic illness or pain, and so on.
Here’s what Patti shared. First off picture some rock salt or even Kosher salt, it’s course and jagged right? This is the shape of a stress hormone. As it floats through the bloodstream, it nicks at the edges of the arteries. These nicks require patching up, think small band aid on a paper cut. The band aid in this case is cholesterol, the cholesterol builds up due to more and more nicks and you get clogged arteries. You can also get a heart attack, a stroke, or that final disco dance.
But wait, there’s more. Stress aggravates the immune system which means we are more susceptible to illness and bugs. It’s also extremely fatiguing when the immune system is always on high alert. A clinician told Patti that after a stressful event or after chronic stress the body is like a post hurricane event on land. There is a disaster with lots of clean up and relief help needed.
Our B vitamins are the sacrificial lamb in the body’s stress management program. Why care? B vitamins are important for brain function, neurotransmitters firing, nourishing the adrenal glads and modulating stress.
What else can we do to help manage stress in the body? Maintain an even blood sugar level throughout the day. This requires you to eat 4 – 6 times per day. Hydration is #2 but not just water, cellular hydration which includes making sure you have the right electrolyte balance which will in part come from eating plenty of vegetables and some fruit, not drinking sugary bevs or eating too much salt.
#3 is take care of yourself. Look around when you start to feel squeezed–and I’m not talking about getting into your high school jeans. If you feel pressure from life look around and see what the cause is. What can you do to relief some of the pressure? Exercise is great, a long soak in the tub helps some, talking to a friend is also helpful. Do these things get to the root of the problem tho? No. It’s important at this age to get that stuff handled and out of your life. How to do it? Get yourself a coach, a support system, do some research on how others have done what you need or want to do.
Some stress is ok but clearly the stress that’s chronic is something we’ve got to pay attention to.
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You already know how much I appreciate your always great information and suggestions. This post, however, really got me to thinking. I had no idea that stress is the #1 toxin to our bodies.
Thankfully, I’ve recently done some lifestyle stress reduction: cut back on work hours, saying “no” to most things I don’t want to do, realizing that “this, too, shall pass,” etc. Now that I’ve read your post, I’m going to do even more. THANKS!!
This information about stress is incredible! I’ve never heard a description of the ravages of stress put so well or so understandably. I sort of knew about vitamin B, but will for sure start taking a B-complex everyday.
But, even with vitamins, you are so right about all the damage we’re doing to ourselves by not being aware of what our life-stressors are doing to our bodies. It’s like you can’t smoke cigarettes and then take an expectorant to cough up all the “bad stuff” in your lungs. The damage is done!
Throughout my decades here on earth I have lived through my share of stress, just like most women. I’ve managed to pick myself up, have a few laughs at myself, and enjoy whatever I can. Life isn’t easy, but we sure don’t do ourselves any favors by wallowing in the pain of it, eh?
My sister sent me this incredible quote, of which she has no idea who said it. Here it is:
“Life is not waiting for the storms to pass…it is learning to dance in the rain!”
I LOVE that! And I love this information you’ve shared here. I will never again think of stress as “just stress”… it is truly THE #1 Toxin forevermore! Thanks for this invaluable information.